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It's New Year season and we're all making a mental list of resolutions and of things we didn't get done last year. So where's the motivation that's gonna see us through and get us to complete what we hadn't the year before? Lack of motivation has a variety of causes ranging from not achieving set goals in an imagined timeframe to lacking skills or knowledge to complete the task to just being plain bored. And so we’ve compiled a few reasons why you may be avoiding your work or not getting to the task at hand and how to deal with them. 1. Your goal is overwhelming you.When you think or talk about this task, all that comes to mind is ‘Aghh’. You are dreading it so much. You can’t see yourself getting it done — it’s just too much! As a result, you procrastinate on getting started and the work snowballs. What to do: Break it down. If you read our last article on Time Management, then you must already be a pro with splitting a seemingly insurmountable load of work into manageable chunks to take one step at a time. Take each day as it comes, and keep yourself organized by noting down what you’ve accomplished. 2. You don’t believe in yourself.You want to do this, but deep down, you truly don’t believe you can. And it’s eating away at your motivation with thoughts like “Why are you even trying? You won’t get there anyway…” For a quick fix: Look at your past achievements and remind yourself how much you managed to achieve to get where you are today. You’ve been through so much- you’re not about to give up now. If you find yourself constantly struggling with your self-esteem and doubting your abilities, you need to identify your limiting beliefs and replace them with empowering ones. In order to achieve big, bold goals, you need to upgrade your mindset with a new set of empowering beliefs that will get you the necessary confidence to take on your goals. “Life is so subtle sometimes that you barely notice yourself walking through the doors you once prayed would open.” ~Mounaks 3. You lack a strong reason why.You may not want to admit it to yourself, but you are not actually interested in doing it; you either just don’t see the point or the reward is just not attractive enough. Either you:
4. You are simply exhausted.There is too much going on in your life. So many things to do and to be taken care of. When everything else is taking up your physical and mental energy, there is simply nothing left for you to push hard towards your goal. What to do: Free up your energy and reprioritize! Rest, de-stress and sleep enough to recharge your batteries. Take a break to clear your head with meditation or something peaceful that you enjoy. If the will to continue is still in you, it’ll come back when your mind is less cluttered. 5. Fear of failure is holding you back.Your fear of failure is keeping you from gathering the motivation to get started. This goes for taking a big step in your career, changing the direction you’re going in and it takes courage. What to do: Get clear about what you are afraid of, how it is holding you back and how this fear shows up in your life. Understanding this is the basis for coming up with a specific strategy to deal with your fear. Talk to someone with more experience or a person who has taken similar steps and learn from them. "Great things never came from comfort zones." 7. You set your goals too small or too big.If you’re feeling dispirited i.e. demotivated from trying to achieve what you want, you may not be setting the correct goals. You may either be planning to do too little, which is practically equal to thinking, ‘It’s small, I’ll do it later.’ or you may be planning to do too much, which overwhelms you before you even begin. What to do: Both ends of the spectrum are not great for your morale. Plan enough to do in a day- don’t underestimate yourself. And yes, dream big — but let the big dreams stay in the big picture. Set your weekly goals in a manageable way and you’ll find yourself able to achieve them. 8. You are impatient.You’re frustrated because you thought you’d be there by now. You thought all that extra time you’d been spending at the clinic, those late hours studying would pay off. What to do: Understand that good things take time. Focus on the progress you’ve made so far and even celebrate little milestones along the way. Enjoy the journey, because it is as much a reward as achieving your goal. Nothing worth having comes easy.” ~Theodore Roosevelt These are a few of the most common reasons why the average person finds themselves feeling demotivated to continue to work at it. The simple ‘fixes’ and ‘what-to-do’s are not easy remedies and may not be for everyone.
But once you find what works for you, then you’ll figure out how to avoid getting demotivated in the future. And if you’ve already found what works for you, then hey! What are you still doing here? Go make New Year's resolutions that you can actually keep.
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